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<p>最后的说说来自多年前，那句“茶还真象人生哈~种下、培养、会做、懂泡、知品、再好最后都会倒掉！” ，实在令人叹息。那些年，我初出茅庐，时而谨慎，时而癫狂。与同事朋友多有交流，但都止于肤浅。唯独领导的话，可说句句在心。虽然交谈并不频繁，但每回都算有所获益。</p>
<p>当时环境，日暮西山，同门相盗。作为新人在其中，常怕成为出气筒，小玩具，只好装疯卖傻，哗众取宠以避些许破事。而那时的领导已是令如鸿毛，人在边缘。每日见闻，不是人后非议，便是人前拆台。一开会，便有邪师说法，损友恶评。领导常常要遁形以避，自正视听。</p>
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